le_rocks
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Has anyone ever had a successful second time relationship with an ex? You guys broke up, months, even years later, try again and it becomes a better relationship.
define successful? i still ultimately broke up with them for good. it wasn't a bad relationship, per se.
I guess our definitions of successful must be different. I wouldn't consider wasting four years of my life on someone I didn't end up being with forever, as successful.
i'm in the process of deciding whether this is a good route to go...
yeah...
no, that girl was a nutcase.le_rocks, is it with this girl?
http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3876185
If so, don't waste your time again.
Is it this one?no, that girl was a nutcase.this is an ex that I regret ever ending a relationship with. But so much time has been apart and we just started talking again.
yep that's the one
Well it depends....After two "wonderful" years (I quote wonderful because that's what you said in the thread) why did you finally break up? Did she get that stupid ass fairy tattoo? Has she grown up at all or does she still do things for instant gratification instead of thinking about consequences?yep that's the onewow I was reading through that thread and wow. so now what do you think? you usually aren't wrong and give really good advice.
She's grown up a lot. And so have I. She has her own place, has her own money and is very much a well rounded person. We broke up the first time cause we both fell out of love? I guess would be the right phrase. But something about seeing her again, just sparked.Well it depends....After two "wonderful" years (I quote wonderful because that's what you said in the thread) why did you finally break up? Did she get that stupid ass fairy tattoo? Has she grown up at all or does she still do things for instant gratification instead of thinking about consequences?
I guess what I'm asking is why? Why would it be different now? Why did it end in the first place?
are you gonna pursue it?Voted for the first option. Together for 3 years went on a break for a couple of months and got back together for another year till we broke up again. She actually came back recently in June of this year cause I guess she was starting developing feelings for me again (even though she still has a BF) but nothing progressed between me and her.
are you gonna pursue it?
good luck. It sucks, cause this is the girl i still think about all the time. It's been two years and she's stil on my mind.I'm currently on round two with my gf. I would say right now things are looking pretty bad. There were times after we got back together that they were good though. Still in it and working on things. I'm going to reserve my answer for a few months though.![]()