Well I've been single for the last two years now but before that i had a gf of 2 1/2 years (long distance) she broke up with me. We are still good friends but after we broke up i kind of slowly developed a bad habit i guess you can call it. Well recently it just has hit me, I'm pretty shallow. At first my friends thought i was just picky but after i told them the reason why i don't like a girl it could be for the smallest reasons they said i was shallow. When i was w/ my ex i was never like this. Any advice to help me fix this problem?