so this girl i work with looked me up on facebook (i work in a building w/ 2,000+ people & didnt even know her).. so after i accept her request & find out we work together, she starts talkin to me at work....we end up meeting downtown one night w/ a group of people..nothin happened. then we did hang out just 1 on 1 one night & after that she has been hounding me to date & texts me non stop "when are you free" "do u want to do this tomorrow" & tons of things like that. it gets annoying so.... this is where i probably messed up: she was txting me like crazy one night while im out at the bar w/ my friends saying "i was hoping to see you tonight" ... so @ 2 am i head home, am drunk & tell her to come over. w/in 10 minutes she gave me head & now the i want to be w/ u got 10x worse... trying to make me eat lunch w/ her at work instead of my friends. so after receiving multiple x multiple texts... i text her back saying "i dont really want to date you or anyone else right now.. i need to be & am enjoying the single life" she doesnt get this !!!! & wont accept it. she is still asking me out non stop after i told her i dont want to date her. how do i make it known better w/o being an ass.. keep in mind i work w/ this girl & see her everyday now. & if the RIGHT girl came along, i would want a girlfriend but its not her & i know this for one, she has a kid... ( - 20 points right off the bat) 2, she said all these things that raise major red flags (ie going out w/ 47 yr old doctors..she was 21 when this happened).... she was pregnant & started dating some guy & never told him til 6 months pregnant (prob b/c she started showing then & was afraid he'd leave her if he knew). she is very very pretty in the face, but u can tell her stomach is still recovering from a baby/c section & it turns me off big time.