Hey guys, first time poster, long time lurker. I jsut wanted to give you guys my situation and maybe you can give some advice. Ok, I have been going to college since September and I noticed this really cute girl in MY opinion. For the first few months, I never really talked to her. She doesn't talk much, and no one really talks to her. She met another girl in the class and the two of them pretty much talk to each other and exclude everyone else. Anyways, I slowly started to really like her and got to know her better, talking to her more often and whatnot. Now I can say we're friends. I have asked her out, but the one or two times that I did, she has said she was busy. I obviously assumed that she didn't want to. So maybe a month or two later, we have a week off of school. During the week off, I wanted to ask if she wanted to do something. To my suprise, she actually agreed. So we went out and we had a good time. She is a VERY shy girl, so kissing at the end of the date nothing really happened. Plus she said her dad would kill me if he saw us kiss. So whatever. The next weekend, I ask her out again, and she gives me the excuse of her brother had some trouble in school and she wants to hang out with him during the weekend. Ok, so I ask her the next weekend. She then says she is going to a hotel with her family. Sound like two bullshit excuses if you ask me. Anyways, I leave her alone for the next few weeks. Don't wanna seem desperate. I talk to her over MSN just casually and say what I'm doing over the weekend. She mentions that she is going to some kids communion one weekend and then something else I forget the next weekend. She mentions that she is ALWAYS busy every weekend so I don't know what to think. If she doesn't like me, why did she go out on that date? Did I mess up on it? I thought it went pretty well. Dunno, I got 2 weeks of school left. Should I even bother with her anymore? It's weird because I think we get along great and have a lot in common plus I usually make her laugh.