Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by KDubb, Mar 12, 2005.
i have a high sex drive and good stamina, she wants it to be short and sweet.
I have the opposite, I have a hard time keeping up with my chick but I'm in my 30's and she's 23
im 29, she was/is 23
this is the 1st time Ive ever encountered this. I'm generally pretty good about feeling someone out beforehand to see how they are going to be in bed to see if I want to proceed forward. this one seemed to be on the same page as me until we got in bed. I guess she thought I was all talk.
any possibility to make her explore a little more? She might be a freak but needs the person to bring it out
she is bi which is great, but I think she has some mental block towards men. she said and I quote, "men cant get me off, only a woman can. men just cant do oral."
next stop, she is gonna have to invite a friend.
now you're talking! that's the only way to fix it. Tell her that the only way you can get off from two chicks is a camera
we have already talked about a threesome, but its doubtful it will happen. she was already talking about how bringing in a 3rd party can cause jealousy issues, but hell, how can I get jealous when all we are is FWB ??
needless to say, she wants more out of the "relationship". I cant give more if the sex isnt good. call me selfish, but hell, I reserve the right to be.
I'm in the same boat as Natas. Get me drunk or high though and it's all good. Sex while you're stoned out of your gord it the best. lol I have fun trying though..that's what it's about, having fun.
As far as men not being good at licking pussy... I'm gonna have to dissagree. I got a chick off just last night by eating her out. After that she told me no one has gotten her off in a LONG time. I guess it's entirely possible she just hadn't been with the right guy, in the right mood, or she lied(both girls).
personally, i prefer to just have a little buzz or be totally sober during sex. I enjoy it less when really fucked up.
as far as my oral skills, the past 2 gf's Ive had have said the exact thing and I found it to be quite ironic to tell the truth.... both said I should get an award for best oral ever.
lol, Well I just like to be high, so I'm biased.. Yea, we should make some shirts that say something along the lines of your award idea.. That would be bad ass.. hahahaha Instead of "world's best mom" or some shit like that have them say "world's best pussy licker"
I dunno. I guess you could compromise..but then if shes just a short term girlfriend, why bother? Find someone that better suits your needs sexually if the two of you cannot reach a happy medium together. Its too early to start compromising now.
well i am perface then, i can cum in 2 min, and it is 3ft she would love me
I WISH there were more guys like you around. that's a damn shame.
Maybe you'll have to train her to be able to go longer. I dunno what your style is, but moderate/or slow it down to her speed for a bit.
Soooo.. you're not getting her off?
oh, ive changed it up, she likes what I do, but she cant go as long as me.
as far as not getting her off, she wont let herself get off. she has a mental block telling herself that only women can do it correct.
sounds like me and my girl
I don't like long rounds either
I like a lot of foreplay, then sex that lasts a little while, then more foreplay, maybe take a break, have sex again later
I'll never understand the energizer bunny type of sex
but then, I have yet to meet a man who can keep up with my sex drive, I may not want it to last for hours at a stretch, but that doesn't mean I don't want hours worth of sex
as for the oral, hey, if you are one of the few blessed males, then I've only ever been with two guys who could get me off from oral, one is my current fwb, and it was about 10 years before him when the last time was
I am with you on that..........Im kool without actually having sex for hours.
Im kool with giving or recieving oral or playing and what not and make the
whole experience last awhile. Its just that she doesnt have a strong sex
drive. I have done everthing possible, I blow her mind when we do have sex
but I am always the one that initiates it and if not we would go months
She just needs to "relax", but then again who the hell am I to tell you what she needs to do. I can't even get off from men or women. I mean it feels great and stuff, but I haven't made the 'O' face with anyone.
Sounds like it could be a comfort thing.
I'm sure it has a LOT to do with comfort...but then theres also a LOT of women that have just as much of no idea how to perform oral sex as some guys do. The idea that women do it better is absolute bullshit. lol
only woman I've ever been with got me off from oral the first time, and she'd never done it before
first timers luck maybe?
but then, I got her off from it too, and I'd never been down on a woman previously either
that sux. it was the opposite for me. tim is 29 and i'm 21...and i have a higher sex drive than him. especially when we first started having sex. he was the only man i'd ever been with that could make me have an orgasm, so i wanted to do it ALL the time. i could've had sex a hundred times in one night..but he didn't want to more than once. one night i finally got him to have sex 3 times...over a time span of about 10 hours.
since we've been together for a long while now, my sex drive has come down..i guess i'm just getting use to his sex drive and kinda letting mine go
I'm going from my own experience ..and theres been a bit of it. The girls were just TERRIBLE! Sucking, nipping, ramming their fingers inside me roughly, licking too hard...it was a joke. Sometimes i think that girls have this false cockiness that they can get a girl off without trying because "a girl knows what a girl wants". Maybe thats why the guys appear to try harder.
I hear ya on that. There are just some who need to be re-taught or stop watching so much bad porn.