So my SO and I have been 'official' for about a month now. Recently, and only on some days i've noticed some small things being different so I kind of asked her what was up...had a little talk, and it basically came out that she sometimes thinks that we might be moving too fast and she pushes herself away. We work opposite schedules so we don't get to see each other often, but when we CAN see each other, we always do. We get along great, and this was just brought up last night and again today. She assures me that she really, really does want the relationship to work, but she needs to figure out what's causing the issue sometimes. Background: This girl and I started talking after my ex and I broke up. She was there from about the moment we broke up...trying to be a friend and help me through, but she was also obviously interested. Well, we hung out and talked for a few months but I was kind of shady/apprehensive and was hit and miss. She eventually didn't know what was going on, or if it was going to go anywhere and backed away. Not long after that, something clicked in my head and it made me realize how bad I was screwing things up with a great girl. I told her how I felt, apologized for what I did, etc. We got together like 1.5 weeks later. Fast forward to now, when we've been together for a month. For the most part things are great. We never fight, we get along super well, we're both pretty into each other. Just at times though, I can tell she'll get a little 'off'..probably just wtihin the last 2 weeks or so. She admits its that at times she wonders if we moved to fast (with the whole fact that she didnt know if it was going anywhere from my end, and then i came out with how I felt and we sort of just jumped into it), and other times she has no problem with how things are. To be fair, she's stressed as hell from work too...might lose her job, hates her traffic-filled 1.5hour commute, etc etc. Also, she said she's never had anyone like me before and it might just take getting used to. I treat her extremely well and apparently old boyfriends took advantage of how nice of a person she is. Basically, I don't know what my play is. She said backing off and not talking isn't really an option. She couldn't do it and knows she wants this to work...but she has to figure out what's making her think the way she does sometimes. She may even just be afraid of gettign close and getting hurt. Opinions? I typed this up quick bc my nerves are all shot, so if anything needs clarification let me know.