I've posted on here many time's about my relationship, when I fucked up or things looked weird. My life would be completely different today if I followed your guy's advice. Maybe, I'd be happy, maybe not, anyway despite all that I've stuck with her. Now I come to you again for your input/experiences simular to mine and tell me how they were. My G/F has finally left for 3 months to the Philippines. She's been gone for a week now, today. We've been dating for over a year now. I care deeply for her, and it was painful to have her leave my arms. It's like a part of me leaving myself to return someday. I don't feel so inclined to get out or do much anymore, and it's only been a friggin' week! I figure the beginning is going to be the hardest part. To not hold her hand, to not see her face, to not see her look at me and smile again. It's weird to know someone isn't physically there anymore. How have other people dealt with this? My friend from back home had his gf leave for Korea for almost a year, and they broke up on the third month she'd been gone, because she fell in love with some Korean guy. Not that my gf is going to cheat anyway, just I couldn't believe when it happened to him. I was on MSN suicide watch for 3 days listening to his ideas of killing himself and I talked him through it. It went on for months afterwards. He didn't even call her in those 3 months and once I found that out I didn't have to figure out her reasoning very long.