I have a friend who is having relationship problems and I want some other input into the situation. To make the story a bit easier to read let A= my friend B= the girlfriend C= the old boyfriend Basically A has been with B for 6 months and the relationship is long distance. A travels to see B at least once a month (B will never travel to see him even though she is perfectly capable. She is just unwilling to give up her time) They talk on the phone every day. B lost C to a bike crash 7 months ago. They were days away from being engaged. Now, tonight B tells A how she still loves and misses C. B is comparing A to C and A feels like if C was still around that B would pick him over A. A is wondering if he should give B space to sort out her feelings (even though he promised to always be there for her) or if he should just stick it out. (B is unaware that A feels this way) My own input to A has been that B has not gotten over the sudden loss of C. A and B got together only 1 month after C's death. That seems really soon to me. A says he really loves B and doesn't want to give up. If any of this need clarifying let me know!