yea, some crazy shit. I've been friends with this chick from HS for quite some time. lately we've been closer than ever. but see.. we're friends. she's been with her BF for about 9 months. she'll tell me shit that bugs her about him and i'm the shoulder for her to lean on. they don't even see each other much. she said if she's lucky maybe 3 times a week. usually just once or twice though. shit, i see her more than that. damn. kinda falling for this one. i can make her laugh easy and have been there to help her out with shit. i asked her to go chill with me tomorrow for Christmas shopping (tomorrow is her birthday too so help on what to get her would be awesome). She agreed to go with me to the mall(s). She said before 8 though. obviously she's gonna see the bf after going shopping with me i assume.. She claims to be in love with this guy but i know it's not true. sometimes she'll tell me she debates whether she should be with him or not . she has like no friends. she says she just has him.. she also admitted to being attached. but i know it's because he's all she has and she thinks she can't do any better. How can I get these two to break up without being fucked up? a friend of mine said to use the negative shit she tells me about her bf to my advantage and talk shit about that but i dunno. please help, thanks.