God. I'm completely aware of the rule regarding this - never fall for a girl who is your friend, and, even worse, never act on your feelings. I can't help but feel, however, that this one is different (maybe I'm just saying that). We've known eachother for three years, but our friendship has always been difficult to define. I felt like there was a spark at the onset, and I heard on the grapevine that she fancied me but she didn't want to pursue it because she was in another relationship. At the time, I took this in my stride and convinced myself I would stop fancying her. After a while I kind of did and we remained friends. Fast-forward to later on ... she's single, but because our friendship seems deadset, I do not assume that I can automatically try it on with her, and I don't. But with her new-found single status and her flirty behaviour towards me, my attraction to her increases. Now we are in the present. She is visiting me for the weekend and she is leaving soon. The weekend has been incredible. Nothing has happend, but we've had so much fun. We got drunk, we flirted, but I was too scared to go for more.I'm afraid I'm getting that unpleasant feeling in my stomoch at the thought of her going home. I sound like such a ponce, but god, I will miss her so much. What we have now is amazing but I will be devasted at the thought of her getting into a relationship with someone else. I'm starting to think that just before she leaves I should randomly tell her with a wry smile that I think I actually fancy you, and laugh like it's not a big deal ... I dunno. I realise all the risks involved, but fuck, I will be so so gutted that I never at least tried. What do you guys think?