so my gf and i have been dating for 15 months now.. we've had our problems (http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=2453931) and we worked them out. (or so i thought) last night she calls me and says she has doubts about me going to the same school as her. After a whole semester of her preaching on about how great it would be if i got into UGA college of pharmacy so we could see each other every day, i finally got in.... now that i got in, she has doubts. she says that she thinks that the relationship will hold her back and she won't be able to do what she wants. she thinks that i'll become clingy (wtf... hypocrite bitch). i told her that i've never stopped her from going to a party or hanging out with her friends instead of being with me and i wouldn't start doing that just because we go to the same school. so she says, well what if i want to hang out with other guys...like, date them? so i tell her, why can't we get these last 2-3 weeks of school out of the way and enjoy our summer together and if you still feel that way when we go back to college in the fall, we can deal with it then... whether it be by breaking up or what not. she says, well what if i feel that way right now. so now i'm getting kind of pissed and sick of the shit. i tell her, are you seriously going to fuckin date anyone right now in the last 3 weeks of school? you're too busy to even talk to me on the phone and you're going to end our relationship so you can be free to date? and what about summer, who the hell are you going to meet and date at the tech school? (we're both taking summer classes and then she is going to china for a month) (keep in mind, this girl doesn't have a car, her mom drops her off/picks her up.) so she tells me, what is the point of dating? it is so you can see what's out there for when you want to get married. i'm like WTF. Last semester when i even brought up marriage she got freaked out. i'm so in love with this girl that i wouldn't have second thoughts about marrying her. i spoil her like no other. seriously, if you guys knew half the shit i did for her you would be embarassed for me. if she thinks she can get better, she's going to get a bitter slap in the face. i don't know anyone else that would deal with some crazy bitch yelling at them if a single crumb falls on her bed. or if the pillowcase slides off the pillow a little. or if you put your bookbag on her bed. or a million other stupid little things that piss her off. ANYWAYS, i basically told her that if she feels like she wants to date other people right now, then i am willing to have an open relationship so that we can both date other people. i'm thinking that this way, i can still get some gf action in the meantime while i find someone else to go out with. my biggest problem is that i am extremely bad at socializing. No fucking joke. I have 0 new friends at my university. all of my friends here i knew from highschool. i talk to people in class, but it is fucking hard to make new friends (especially for me) when you can't talk for more than a minute or two during class lecture. i mean, i know alot of new people but i don't hang out with any of them. whatever. what do you guys think about my situation and what do you think i should do about it? i swear that it seems like every big problem i've had in this relationship has been because of my gf. she starts all the drama. i bet you when summer starts and we start seeing each other every day (if i'm not completely sick of her and never want to see her again after her doing this shit to me TWICE) she is going to forget about dating other guys.