Been a pain to get here lately, our internet has been very flakey transversing back to the states, but we'll be home soon However, I'll be coming back single. My GF and I decided to call it quits two weeks before I get back. I can't say that I'm sad about it, or maybe it just hasn't hit me yet, it's actually... kinda relieving. This makes me think I'm a terrible person though. It was a mutual break up, pretty much about issues we have had in the past, plus I've also knew I could do better looks wise... but I enjoyed being with her. I guess my biggest problem is I'm scared. All that confidence I had to talk to random women seems to be gone at the moment (though it is the first day of me being single, and I'm not exactly somewhere with a plethora of women I can date, and .... I'm not some where I can date). Anyway, should I be feeling different? She still wants to be friends and I still want to be friends. It just... it doesn't hurt. I don't feel angry at her, I don't feel sad, I don't really feel anything. This lack of feeling is weird to me in a break up situation since I generally make sure all my relationships end badly so I don't have to be friends in the end. Sooooo... I guess what I'm doing here is asking for advice on what I should do now (I know I should date, I spend enough time in here to know that ) but... yeah. Any suggestions on where a 27yr old, single male, that works out religiously can pick up a nice nerdy/geeky looking girl are more than welcome. I haven't been a nerd, or single, for a long time so my women tracking skills may be somewhat impaired.