Like the topic says, SIGH... im kinda seeing this girl and we usually get along great and all. there are a few things we dont agree on and i suppose thats normal in any relationship. the thing that frustrates me is that the moment i say anything about being open to trying anything sexually she EXPLODES. she gets turned on at first and gets into it and then ill say something about anal or 3 some and then totally kills it. i figure that since were already talking dirty ill just express my fantasy and then shes liek OH IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT? WELL DONT EXPECT IT FROM ME BLAH BLAH BLAH and then says NO MORE SEX THEN. i just feel like if we just do the same thing over and over again, my sex life will be redundant and boring. im in between a rock and a hard place cause i dont want to dump her just cause of that since everythign else about her is great, but sex is a huge part of who i am. am i just a jerk for thinking this? helppp!