some of you may remember this. pretty much a year ago my gf broke it off w. me after 2 yrs bc "she lost the spark". she is now 23. i was her first RS longer than 6 months. first person she ever lived with. etc... after 2 months of us being broken up she asks me back. i go against my own rule of taking an ex back. about a week ago i start to sense the same "feeling" i was getting about a year go from her. i decide not to question her. didnt want to sound insecure or paranoid. i keep getting the feeling and think "im normally right about my gut feeling". so a few hrs ago i sit her down and ask her. yup i was right. she loves me blah blah blah... doesnt know if she wants to be w. me forever blah blah blah. i stop her and say "we are better off a part. i dont doubt that you love me as in care for me, but you are not in love with me. its time for us both to move on". im giving her until the end of the week to get her stuff out of my house. its bitter sweet bc although it sucks, i no longer have the lingering feeling of "will she do this again?" "she left me once. is she really the person i want to marry one day?". i was also basically supporting her due to her job loss and her new job paying a lot less. i was letting her live rent/bill free and was even paying for her car ins. this combined w. my uneasiness in the steadiness of the RS' future was stressing me out at times. i still care for her very much and wish her well. time to move on to yet another page of my life.