Hi, I just wanted to see what other peoples opinions are on single life. I am single through choice now, i donot want a relationship and this is making so many people question who i am, especially men, they seem to see it as an attack on their sexuality, that not wanting a date means either there is something wrong with them or with me. I haven't had a bad relationship, been beaten, mistreated and im not a lesbian, i think men are great and i enjoy their company more than a womans alot of the time, i just don't want one. I went through the motions for a few years, dates that never went anywhere due to my heart not being in it, but i felt it was the "normal" thing to do. Since i took a long hard look at the reasons i was unhappy and realised that the fact i was trying to do something i didn't really want was the cause and have stopped people think i have a problem. I have a good life, own home and business, financially independent, a great circle of friends, male and female, 2 amazing children, i am not afraid of the fact that one day i will be alone, i am more happy now than ever so why would i change it, why would anyone? Yet my choice is questioned all the time. I have just had an argument about this topic with a male friend who thinks that i am mentally damaged for not wanting to take our friendship further. Is single life so bad???