The backstory is kind of long, I made a thread about what happened in the vag forum link Basically we both met this chick back in april, he gave her his number, she talked to him at the beg of this summer. They hung out a few times, but everytime she would come over, she'd bring one or more of her friends with her. (basically saying nothing is going to happen). She then introduced my brother into her roommate, and they started dating (the roommate and my bro). Fastfoward, the four of us ended up going on a double date sort of thing (mainly to hang out). My bro and his chick went to bed, I was hanging out with the girl we met in april, we came back to my house, got into it, but thought it was a good idea to go to her place (i still live at home with my mom). So we did that, and ended up having sex. That was about three weeks ago. I have talked to the girl once since then for whatever reason. I asked my brother what he thinks I should do, since he sees her reguarly (dating the roommate still). I didn't get very much info or help out of him, but I made it clear that some answers or explainations would be great. (want to make it clear that a relationship is not what I want, just an explaination). Last night I go to hang out with my friend where he works, and ask him what hes planning on doing after he gets off. He tells me that my brother is trying to hook him up with this girl, one of his girlfriends friends. It ends up that it is the same girl I had sex with, and knowing my friend, hes going to meet her to get some ass. I explained it to my friend about what happened with me and her, and made it clear that I do not care about what she does with him, or hanging out with her. She is not an issue anymore. I am pissed about my brother going behind my back like that, when he made me think he was going to help out. I have calmed down since last night, but feel that I should confront my bro about the entire thing. If he never wanted to help out, then why doesnt he tell me, and why would he go behind my back and help our friend get laid. (not saying it would rather be me, and I'm serious). What should I do about him though. I do not want him to be pissed at me for being a dick, but he shouldnt get away with going behind my back like that. I will answer any questions you all want, not sure if I made the whole story clear or not. But I hope the readers of this thread understand that my intentions have nothing to do with the girl anymore. I do not want to marry her, or have a relationship with her. I do not want my brother to fix things for me. Thanks.