I want to know how you guys feel about this situation that I am in and what I should do about it. I don’t want any bullshit replys. I’ve been going out with my girlfriend for awhile now and we both love each other. I found out that she still talks to this frat guy that she use to hook up with until the guy’s girlfriend found out about them and made him stop talking to her. He sent my gf an IM when she had her away message up that said happy valentines day. I asked my gf who the IM was from and she told me exactly what I wrote above. Apparently they just talk about stuff and dude knows about me and my gf tells him good stuff about me. She said that they are just friends. I don’t understand why she still talks to this kid. I remember my gf telling me awhile ago how the kid started hooking up with her and then she randomly gets a call from the guys girlfriend telling her to stay away from him. This kid lied to my gf when they started hooking up and yet she still talks to him. I dont like this situation and I don’t know what to do. I just celebrated valentines day with my gf and she said it was the best ever and she is excited and happy. The only problem that I am having is that I don’t know what this kids motives are and if he cheated on his gf with my girl before we started dating what will make him stop from doing it again? I believe my girl when she tells me things, but in this situation I don’t know what they talk about because I’ve seen IMs from him many times when im chillin at her place with her away message up. I don’t know what they actually type when im not around. What do you guys think I should do? I think I should talk to my gf about it, but not right now even though I really want to. I don’t want to come off as being a being jealous or something, or telling her who she is allowed to talk to or not.