Ok, a month ago or so, I posted my situation with my ex. Basically, for the recap, she cheated, got with someone else, says she loves me but then when it came down to it, stayed with him anyway (despite breaking up with him). But when I go back home to visit, she cheated on him numerous times with me. Fine, whatever. I get closure (finally) and come back to Indiana to resume school. Here's the thing. Since they broke up and got back together, he's moved into her apartment (been together for a month and a few days), have a dog, and goes to work and school. The last three weeks or so, they've been fighting constantly, about one thing or another. Sometimes I get dragged into it, sometimes I don't. I tell her that she's in a bad relationship and that she needs to get out of it, not for my sake (I love her but I know its over v. I want her to be happy) and take care of herself and what she needs. Am I right for taking time to listen to her and help her? I don't have any motive to get back with her (not that its really possible anyway), she does tell me she misses me and I reciprocate the feeling but I avoid conversations about our hearts almost entirely (she sometimes says "Why'd you leave me, blah blah, pertaining to when I moved up to Indiana), and I'm just genuinely concerned for her. Maybe I should just not talk to her for awhile?