Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Franco, Apr 29, 2008.
how do you train yourself to last longer, while still ofcourse going at it in a powerful way?
First question (and it's important): How long on average do you last?
Depends on mood and since last time. Generally 5min. Take or add +-3min for minimum and maximum.
wear a condom?
Because im a body builder its probably easier for me to last as long as I want compared to your average joe.. im just more in-tune with my body. I control when I go.
I do wear a condom still I have co concetrate on fat and ugly chicks to last 5-7minutes.
Whenever you feel self start to get REALLY into it, just slow down? Idk, I don't have a penis so I'm at a loss.
It works, bur if I slow down then the heat of the moment is lost you know, the girl doesnt want to slow down!
Might aswell slip out then.
How often are you 'doing it' ?
Do you do anything on your own time to help 'train' ?
How do you view sex? More emotional or physical? I know, silly question, but I think it has merit. If just physical you can do things to help yourself. If emotional, you may be so tied up in the moment that controlling yourself isnt an easy option.
Need more info. Need to know if you checked the other threads on the same subject.
have you ever thought about going more than once.. on average i can pull my first go out to about 10-30 minutes or faster if she orgasms with me. but then i'm always ready to go again like 5-20 minutes later, my second time i can last for pretty much as long as I want and really get into not only pleasing her but doing what feels really really good to me without having to "think about fat chicks" haha.
if you can do like i do, just explain to her that while the first time will be short, after you get it over with you will then rock her world.
or if you are embaressed about it always try cumming quietly into the condom, dont announce it and then reach down and make it "accidently" fall off, if its dark just toss it to the side put on a new one and pretend like the first one never happened. make the condom change fast so that you stay hard. yes i've done this back when i was young and insecure... now i find it easier just to tell a girl the truth.
mine is random....sometimes I can go on forever which is sometimes frustrating
and sometimes only 5 min.
An ex of mine use to give me a bj first, then i'd go down on her, by the time she came, i was ready for more and can go on for awhile..around 10-15 min.
lol at 10-15 minutes being "awhile"
Have sex more often.
Masturbate before sex.
Have your masturbation sessions last longer (ie. when you're getting close to the point of no return, take a short break (keep watching/looking at the porn, of course) and then resume). When you can masturbate for 30-45 min, you should be able to have sex for that long. Keep in mind tho this is including those breaks. I don't mean it takes 45 minutes of straight jacking off in order to cum. That would be weird. Anyway this will get your body used to the task taking a while longer.
I've heard some guys don't last long in bed because they are used to masturbating very quickly and so they trained their bodies to think that from stimulation to cumming shouldn't take very long.
Asofyet, I still can't. So I dunno
Take small breaks, does the trick
fuck that, it interrupts the flow, sometimes a girl wants steady continuous stimulation to cum.
However, I think using the idea of "small breaks" comes off wrong. IMO I think if you are getting too close a great way to slow yourself down while also keeping your girl just as horny and into it is immediately switching her into another position. It's really hot to not only know your guy is close, but then to have him just turn you over or something and keep going is even hotter. I think the action of pulling out and taking mere seconds to change things up can help you last longer.
Doing it quite often when both have times, basically every weekend.
No, dont do anything on my own time, what could I do?
Both emo and phys.
Here are some. There's also stickie FILLED with lots of advice if you take the time to read them...
Well yeah, switching position is a good trick. But by small breaks I mean 15 secs maybe? Nothing really long...
I've found the squeezing the muscles in my lower abdomen helps. This has made me fart a time or two though
Masturbate more often and if you know you are going to get lucky that day, masturbate that morning.
Without masturbation and sex for a week, I will done in under 5 minutes easy. With Masturbation it ups it easily to 10-15minutes. With frequent sex (3-5 times a week), I can pretty much control how long I last.
Also you just have to be in the right mind set. I find if I control my breathing properly and don't even think about finishing, I can last a little bit longer.
Then we all have days where it just goes regardless of what you do.
usually it's not really a problem for me, assuming i'm having sex on a regular basis. but like said above, sometimes there's those days where it's going to end quickly. on those days, i just try to concentrate on something else if I feel it coming. Like i'll just listen to the t.v. for a minute if it's on, then once i don't feel like i'm going to cum, i stop listening and start paying attention to what i'm doing again.
I find that if I get off the day before I have sex, I last longer than the day of, though lasting isn't an issue here. If I wear a condom, the likelihood that I will climax is very minimal. It kinda sucks.