We've lived together now for about 9 months or so and everything was ok for the most part, but there was always an underlying lack of trust on her part. I've never cheated on or even thought about cheating on her, but for some reason she could never believe me. Anyway, so I work at 630 every morning and my normal routine is log in and check my gmail account once Im at work. Gmail has the capability to track if you have any other sessions open and from what IP and what times they originated. I started to notice that my gmail account would have activity every morining at roughly 625 or so while I am on my way to work and it originated from my home IP. I kind of dismissed it for a while, but one morning she emailed me asking if I had received an email of hers. I told her I didnt receive it, and she told me to check my recycle bin. Apparently I had deleted it on accident and somehow she knew that I did. So I really started to get suspicious and ended up installing one of those stealth activity monitoring tools on my home PC. So it is recording everything she has been doing for the past few days and I was really disturbed by it. She logs in like clockwork after i leave the house, checks all my emails (work and personal), chat logs, sent items, deleted items, archived message, forum posts and website activity. I really do love this girl, but I told myself I have to draw a line somewhere and I think this is it. I just told her about 45 minutes ago and she begged me to reconsider. We both cried and she took off, to where I dont know.. I feel terrible, but in my gut I know it was the right decision in the long run. I guess I just needed to get that off my chest in an attempt to rationalize what is going on.