Well their is this girl were things are confusing for her and it pisses me off. I decided that I was no longer going to put up with her acting differently when friends are around and when they are not. Also her pulling the we are just friends card when we are doing things that friends would not do, like sleep in the same bed is a big one for me..We just dont sleep either So I start saying what is on my mind like when she tries to tell me I am doing something that she does not approve of I just say "I don't care that you think it is bad for me" This in turn gets me called a jerk. In which I say "Well I don't think I am a jerk but if I am a jerk why would you hang around me? I would not hang around someone who is a jerk to me" Her bday rolls around and I show up because I said I would before getting called a jerk. I don't touch her, hug her poke her or anything. I hardly say anything at all because I am tired of this oh, we are just friends who like to be flirty all the time stuff. I asked her to date me and she refused so why am I going to keep hugging, touching etc? Anyways I ignore her on her bday, where half the people invited did not show up. Usually when she stays over she sleeps with her girl friend but she had her bf so can't sleep there. As I was heading up the stairs and her down she grabs me while holding the pillows and I just tug away, say happy birthday, night. She doesn't really say anything back.. I don't stop there because the next morning I just stayed in bed watching tv until everyone left. I just feel really bad, nothing went as planned for her.