and its not what i thought it would be. the ring diameter is waaaay too big (3/8ths) for my ear, and all in all i think it looks kinda gaudy. so i went back to the piercer and talked to her about changing it out, and she basically said that anything of a smaller diameter would be too curved to heal properly, and she wouldnt touch it again until next weekend at the earliest. bs or true? btw this is my left ear, and i got a bar through my right eyebrow a week and a half ago, and its pretty much completely healed. what do you guys think?