went to court and the end result was "dissolution of injunction". now things are slowly on their way back to whatever normal is/was. i told him about the gf passing away. that sucked. still sucks. ex-wife is still a PITA. my kid has grown exponentially in the past 3 months so guess what? me and the old pb&j are lovers, so i can buy clothes he'll outgrow in 3 more months. oh well, at least i have custody of him again. i'm usually the kind of person that rarely misses a beat and can push forward through anything. this, on the other hand, has me still trying to figure out what direction to go.