I'm kinda confused on this one guys..need some input and help so, I've always been known as a "playa" by most of my friends and acquaintances. I liked this when I was in HS, but now I'm older and don't really like that. I've matured a lot in the past 2-3 years, and even had a long-term relationship which I never had ever before..(all hook-ups, dates, "relationships" not lasting more than 2-3 weeks). And of course I dumped them all or stopped talking to them. Anyhow, this is the background and I'm not saying anything that's not true because I want your best advice. so, I met a girl recently and to be honest, I thought it was kinda special. The reason being because I haven't been attracted to this type of girl much before. I wouldn't say ever, but definitely not "my type". But the start was very good and she showed a lot of interest, probably a little too much. I responded the same because I didn't wanna make her feel like she's the only one doing everything. This went on for like 2 weeks and during this time we talked a lot and got to know each other a bit. and then like a week ago, BOOM it was all different. she'd show sadness if I didn't call/text for a day, but now she wasn't texting me (only responding) and would occasionally not return calls, etc. I guess I'm too proud to do anything more than she does because of my background, etc. so I don't show like I'm worried about it and stuff. One thing that's kind of bothering me is the fact that I told her about my past a bit, cause I thought honesty really works well in a relationship and I think she kinda got disappointed at that, but this was in the beginning when everything was good. What can the reasons be? I think this could be a good thing or a bad thing. Good- she wants to really test me thinking if this is to work out, then she better get to know me well now. maybe she's really having issues right now with other things. Bad- thought it would be better to cut it off here because of various reasons. found another guy (i think very unlikely) or all of a sudden stopped liking me? (i think this is very weird because she's the opposite of slutty and a player) I know it's way too long to read but I've never been in this kind of situation before so I need your help guys. really appreciate whoever read all this crap.