I can't make myself do it. I see a girl or girls and litterally sit around, spot all the men who are more attractive and more pumped then me, then wait around for other guys to go talk to the women so I can leave. I like this tactic because it spares me the shame of either the women rejecting me, the men cutting in and taking over because they have more social value than me, but most importantly it stops the shame. I stopped approaching women because I'm not good at it. I can't go up to women and act fake, like some mack daddy fucktard. I know being a fucktard works, but I can't do it...even if the outcome is a certainty. What should I do? I don't know if I really want to go the rest of my life alone. Right now I pretty much never vary from cardio->work->gym->dinner->sleep, and don't know that I want to. I don't know what you're supposed to go up to women and say. I don't even fucking know them. When I go into meetings and high pressure shit at work, at least I know what I'm talking about. I can't really go into a sittuation with women expecting a mentality where they know all the stupid lines and tactics are a mission to woo them, because they either aren't that smart or if they did notice the garbage, they wouldn't respect me for it. The whole process and mentality is a waste of time. I wish it could go like this"Hi, here is all the bullshit about me like what I like to do in my spare time, you're hot...if you're willing to bang me an are willing to spend time with me doing things that no woman really wants to do (like go to the racetrack, cook, watch showtime) then I could probably keep you around for a while." I've had the chance to get laid like 3 times in the past 3 years. I mean chance in terms of; we're both naked, but I don't really want to deal with the pressure of doing a better job than the last dude and what if I make a porno face, and the chick makes fun of me? cliffs: I'm a happy person.