Is that bad? If someone wrongs me in some way, sometimes in fairly minor ways, I won't hesitate to limit contact (or completely cut off contact) with them. My relationship with these people will never be the same because I won't let it. I think I feel I would lose respect of myself (and possibly from others) if I let someone wrong me and then let them back into my life like it never happened. I mean, how could I let myself trust someone (and let other people know I trust someone) who has hurt me in some way. It sucks because I think it might really be damaging to my social network. I feel people are really selfish and tend to do things that are ONLY in their best interest, even when it hurts, harms, or dissatisfies another person. But is it healthy to let, potentially, most of my relationships go to shit because I hold grudges? I'm not speaking about anything specific, but there are plenty of specific instances that I can think of at the moment. Side note: I'm glad I started to read this forum. I broke up with my GF a bit a go and I just wanted something to read that I could probably relate to, which this forum definently provides. I'm not a very open person and I like to keep my thoughts private. But maybe down the road, I'd be willing to open up here. But until then, I leave you with one of my more obvious problems. Thanks guys!