Hello friends... It was Fishy's bday today and his ex-gf called him up around 11 PM to wish him a Happy Birthday. It was nice to get the call from her as I still care about her and nice to hear ya know. I broke up with her in mid to late March. We'd been dating for ~9 months and I realized I just wasn't in love with her like she was with me. I felt it better to let her go now than later when it would hurt more. Before we get any further into this, the kids are not mine. We were exchanging the "what have you been up to" stories and she unloaded hers on me. About a month after our breakup she was introduced to this fellow by her sister and long story short they got drunk and she got knocked up. With twins. After finding out the news she let him know and he basically told her to "fuck off and die" in not so many words. *sigh* Anyways... I feel like shit and just wanted to get this off my chest. She told me that she wants to keep the babies and has decided that she will just raise them on her own even without any of his help. I feel so badly like this is the worst possible decision she can be making. She's only 21... not even 22 until July of this year. *double sigh* Thoughts? This girl is such a sweetheart and never did anything wrong towards me. The spark just wasn't there and I had to do what's right for me too. God it's so tough to sit here thinking she's just throwing her life away now.