that my brother is gay Just heard it from my sister last night. I want to fucking cry I'm quite homophobic, to be honest. And apparently, my mom and sister knew about it for more than 7 years!! Yea, he's been gay for that long. It fucking hurts! The reason came as a shock is because my bro is like this super good looking guy, had TONS of success with women when we were younger, and could literally have any chicks he desired. I mean he was this macho thing. He used to date the hottest girl at school, was mega popular, and now, BAM. He has a fucking b**f***** It's my bro though, I fucking love him to death, but now with this, I'll still love him obviously, but wtf? I know I can't change him (I think my mom has tried for the past several years), but I just cannot accept it. No him. You're gonna hate me for saying this, but to me, being gay is a choice you make. It's not genetic or any other crap. You're not born with it, and he he is the proof of this. When he was like 3 years old, he fell for this chick and "dated" her for so many years. I mean at this age, you don't know the difference between dating a chick or not. He was naturally attracted to the opposite sex. So what should I do?