so i think im falling... UPDATE in love.. i cant really explain it.. never felt like this before and dont know what to do.. i've been with this girl for over a month now, but not really dating u know, just really close friends, nothing serious going on in the whole sex thing, which i dont care about.. its the little things, her coming over after school, hanging out,staying the night just to get away, or me making breakfast in bed for her and seeing her smile, or that good night kiss at the end of the night and having her on my mind the rest of the night and the next day while im at work... its like she is always on my mind and i love it but yet hate it at the same time when she is not there..she is like my little .. so i think that i can say im falling in love with this girl.. i feel kinda dumb posting about something like this, but i know OT has alot of people feeling the same thing about other girls or guys.. any advice you think i should follow? ***UPDATE*** a little bit long.. ok, where to start? so me and my lady friend are hanging out all day yesterday, rented a movie, made some dinner blah blah.. then go over to a buddys house for his b-day, booze it up quite heavily, just cuz it was his bday. so me and her are having a good time, and my buddy (i'll call him G) G shows up, and G and my girly are good friends, they go outside and talk hang out for like an hour and whatnot and then he has to get back home, well she dissapears with him for like 30 minutes?? not sure where the hell she went? so she comes back, and has to be home by 12:30.. so im kinda under the impression that she was doing something w/ G.. so i text her, Me:- and ask wtf is going on? and that we need to figure out what "we" are.. are we together, friends, just dating or what.. Her:-i thought we were just friends.. Me:- just friends? wtf, i thought it was more serious? u stay the nite at my house occasionaly, hug/kiss shit all the time.. thats more than friends Her:- ...... im so sorry, i dont know what to say.. (she did one of these ) at this point i was just furious and didnt care what i said at that point Me:-thats it? fine.. thanx for the good times that we had.. have fun bye Her:- please babe dont do this, i dont want it to be this way. come over tomorrow and we will talk about it, please... Her:- please.. i honestly dont know what to say.. please call me Me:- fine.. i'll be over sometime, just call me in the morning.. bye so i havent talked to her and dont know wtf is going on.. i was so god damn pissed, upset, sad, and frustrated all at once.. i left my party and drove down the road and just started to .. i really never felt so bad in my life ever. so i should probably call her and atleast talk to her... even though it hurts and im dreading what she is going to say UGH!