LOVE So I think my friend's mom might be coming on to me

[babar]

My friend and I are planning on going to Europe this summer. He's still up north in school, I'm in our hometown. His parents are helping me plan this trip. Anyways, his mom texts me a lot, mainly just questions or sugestions about Europe, but she occasionally sends me random ones, like "GO RED SOX" (this was during their last series).....just now i responded to one of her europe suggestions with some humor, and she gave me a "". I didn't even know parents knew their was such a wink smile. anyways, she asked me to meet her for coffee tomorrow to go over the itinerary. i know this sounds very minor, but if there ever was a mother who would fuck one of her son's friends, it is this woman. she's just that type. i went over to their house today to go pick up some europe books, and her husband was still in the house, i was getting to my car, and she was just talking to me for a bit. as im about to close my door, she turned around and asked me just another random personal question, as if she wanted to continue talking to me to see if some flirtation would come of it. i know it sounds like im blowing this out of proportion, but im telling you, i was getting the vibe.

She's pretty old at the age of 55, but has A LOT of work done on her.
her husband is a piece of shit fuck head by the way.

 

[babar]

lol. i don't know.

i would not feel guilty one bit for her husband. he's prob cheated on her many times.

but she is the mother of my good friend.

 

[KindlyCuddly]

she's either an oblivious mom being cutesy or a bored lonely older woman who still has her libido. she'd probably fuck you if it's the second, but only you know for sure.

 

[babar]

she's not oblivious, and not cutesy.

she's a tough woman, likes to be in charge, she knows whats up.....she def. acts younger than her age, likes to cuss, still smokes pot, etc.

 

[babar]

is this THAT wrong tho to fuck your friends mom. i honestly wouldn't feel guilty....it's different......lol

 

[babar]

she even calls me by my last name sometimes.....like a fucking teenager would. hahaha so strange.

 

[KindlyCuddly]

i'm going to personally say no as long as he doesn't find out and you're relatively subtle about it, but i'm sure most others would disagree. yeah, she's married, but they probably secretly hate each other anyway.

 

[MissBangBang]

Erm, I dont really see that as coming on to you..

Some people are a tad flirty, but thats just a personality trait, you know?

BUT if the chance rises up and it clear signals for red team go...DO ITTTT

 

[babar]

Erm, I dont really see that as coming on to you..

Some people are a tad flirty, but thats just a personality trait, you know?

BUT if the chance rises up and it clear signals for red team go...DO ITTTT

now what quantifies as a clear signal.....

im saying should i flirt back next time she flirts with me....or should i only bite if its pretty much a "lets go get a room and fuck" type of comment.

hahaha this is so ridiculous.

im not gonna lie, i've always felt this woman had a thing for me....but you could be right, coult just be her personality.

 

[KindlyCuddly]

yeah, being flirtatious may be something that comes naturally to her, but that doesn't rule out the possiblity that she won't bite back if you show some interest. she's a mom, she probably WON'T make some blatant "fuck me" type of comment at risk of you telling her son or something.

she has to put all that cosmetic surgery to good use somehow.

 

[Dahlia]

I dunno... my mom def doesn't act like that and all flirty..

 

[babar]

but how do i show her interest......


i would have no problem flirting with someone of my age that i met at a bar, but its a bit different.

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

Well I have morals, so I would say don't go for it. She's married, she's your friend's mom....I really don't understand what more you need to tell you it's a stupid fucking idea.

 

[Bush77]

I say go for it .. who knows if you'll ever get an opportunity like this again. I doubt anyone would ever find out.

 

[Alaya]

this has fail all over it

 

[Savage5point0]

I personally dont give a shit if a woman is married or not, its the age that bothers me. 55 is pretty dried up. I usually wont go above ~40.

 

[MP18]

no one has to know

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

lol. i don't know.

i would not feel guilty one bit for her husband. he's prob cheated on her many times.

but she is the mother of my good friend.

God I love how men rationalize for pussy

 

[Alaya]

I personally dont give a shit if a woman is married or not, its the age that bothers me. 55 is pretty dried up. I usually wont go above ~40.

See, if she wasn't married... say his friend potentially found out. Ridiculously fucking awkward, but arguably something that would be worked through.

But, since she's married, I wouldn't be surprised if fucking their son's friend could be a nice little catalyst for divorce should it get out.

Fucking your friends mom? Weird, probably piss your friend off a lot. Possibly your friendship would be ok, maybe not.

Fucking your friends married mom and causing potential marital problems in your "good friend's" family? Fucked up on so many egocentric levels.

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

I don't care how shitty my father was or how slutty my mom was...I would never ever stay friends with a guy who fucked my mom. Ever.

 

[MP18]

I don't care how shitty my father was or how slutty my mom was...I would never ever stay friends with a guy who fucked my mom. Ever.

you're a woman, guys don't care about that shit

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

you're a woman, guys don't care about that shit

I just asked my bf and he said he'd de-friend the guy in a heartbeat as well.

 

[Deborah]

you're a woman, guys don't care about that shit

you mean you don't care if your friend fucks your mom?

 

[babar]

i haven't flirted with her once....i have done nothing inappropriate.

i am entertaining the idea, but deep down i know i could never do something like that.






by the way, she's still sending me texts about our trip. maybe she's just a texter. i dont know.

i should send her something flirtatious, just to see what kind of response i'd get. if its nothing notable, then i was probably overreacting.

give me something to send.

 

[JT07]

she even calls me by my last name sometimes.....like a fucking teenager would. hahaha so strange.

thats not a teenager thing thats a boston thing that i cant stand