... would you still date them? This happened about 6 or 7 years ago, and it was on and off for a few years. I found that out after date 6 or 7, in casual conversation over coffee. Have no idea what to do. I come from a medical family, including two psychiatrists (last two generations) so I know they'd tell me to break it off asap, to avoid any potential conflict in the future if things get more serious, etc. Should I break it off or take the chance, keep it going, and see what happens?