Has proof that my mother has been cheating on him for the past year. Today is he getting a divorce, I can't blame him for getting one since I would do the same thing in his shoes. I'm 18 years old and am the oldest child. I have 3 younger brothers 16,8,6. As of right now I have an immense amount of depression. For the first time in my life I really cant take the depression. I can't imagine a life without my mother. Is there anyway I can become less depressed or feel better so I don't make a stupid decision during this time?