My phone goes "ding" (the sound it makes when you get a coin in Super Mario Bros., greatest txt notification sound ever) because I got a txt message. I was busy so I said "oh, I got a txt, can you check and see what it says?" (I don't have anything to hide, plus I was expecting a txt from my mom anyway) So my gf grabs my phone and is like "um..." The text was from "Crazy" and said "I hope you had a great thanksgiving and are doing well!!" "Crazy" is the name of my ex in my phone. I keep her in there only so I know when it's her texting me or calling me. I don't know her phone number and I wouldn't want to get a text or call from a number I didn't know and then have it be her. I don't answer calls from unknown numbers (if it's important they'll leave a vm) but I can't stand getting a txt from a number I don't know So anyway, my gf knows who "crazy" is and she knows that every 6 months or so she tries to contact me. She also knows I don't talk to exes. But she asked "wow, why is your ex STILL texting you? Hasn't it been almost 3 years now since you guys broke up?" I said "I dunno. Probably because she's a dumb attention whore and she probably just got dumped or in a fight with her bf and is now looking for attention. That's how she operates. That's also part of the reason she's my ex." My gf was weird for like 5 minutes, and then she was back to normal and that was the end of it. Then I started thinking maybe my reply wasn't so great. I said it very matter of factly; it wasn't spiteful or anything, but it was a bit judgmental which chicks tend to not dig. Did I handle the situation ok? This was all like a week ago. It just popped into my head now.