Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by M.A. Malone Esq., Jan 19, 2008.
and her voicemail comes up:
Do you ask her on her voicemail or just tell her to call you back?
Neither. You call back later.
QFT. Give it a day.
Dont leave a voicemail you look like a bitch. Wait for her to call back or call back when she will answer. 7-8 is normally a solid time IMO.
Some girls you just can't get a hold of without leaving a message.
I'm a firm believer in leaving a short brief message that is to the point and makes you sound confident. You can leave a wimpy "hey.....just wanted to call and see what's up....." or you can leave a confident "it's Mike, I think we should go out _______ at ____. Call me back"
There is surprisingly a big difference. This also puts the ball in her court. If she doesn't call you back then fuck it, she's not worth your time. I know personally I never call a guy back unless he leaves a message.
Or hell, just leave her a message saying "this is ____ , call me back"
"it's Mike, I think we should go out _______ at ____. Call me back"
is a fucking terrible message. When was the last time you had to ask out a girl on a date, beer? Oh, never? Right. Let's let the big boys handle it.
Do not ask girls out on dates or for any sort of compliance unless you're like in the middle of a conversatoin with her and she is in a good state feeling like she likes you. So the answer is that you don't ask on a date throuhg voice mail, and what you say depends on how deep you are in with the girl. If she will call you back, you can tell her to call you back. If she won't, say you'll call back later. christ, can we just make a thread here and sticky my goddamn posts
Hardheaded women with low interest level FTL.
Most people can't get a hold of me with out leaving a msg... Sometimes I am out of range of a tower, phone is off, I push the wrong button and take it off the missed call list or I just don't see it. Tons of things can happen but if you leave a msg just saying hey whats up..Then it is flagged on the cell phone and voicemail...
No one here is saying leave some long ass messege and I have never left one over 30 seconds. Usually mine just go like this..
"Hey, It's Brad give me a call back when you get the chance"
If they don't call back then I never call them again.
This is also true. Some people can only be reached by message.
Well, if it helps, I haven't seen her in a while, therefore that might be mentioned in the message.
I think I'm left with two options:
"Hey, it's Mike. Haven't talked to you in a little while. Just give me a call back."
"Hey, it's Mike. Call me when you get this."
Umm what are the odds that is going to happen more than once to someone who's trying to reach you? They call again the next day and there's some other reason your phone won't ring, and again the next day and .....?
Besides if I call a few times and don't get an answer I will THEN leave a message, but at that point I will not expect to get a call back because I will be assuming I've been screened. And if I do get a call back I will consider her only marginally interested and/or flaky, or at least know she's hard to reach. Doing as you say would give me none of that info.
Basically if a girl is not interested enough to expect my call and answer it then waiting a few more days to talk to her is the right thing to do anyway, to build challenge. And if she's a screener or a control freak then I'm not going to reward her for it by letting her set the schedule (unless it's "call after 9pm so I don't use up all my cell minutes" or something similarly reasonable).
lol this is dumb I don't think a girl is going to think you are clingy or whatever for leaving a msg. Why do all these bullshit waiting games.. Fuck there are other options, you can leave a call back number on the voice mail.
Last time I checked I have the vagina, and I know I have never once called back any guy who didn't leave me a message. Keep going with the PUA games bullshit though, by all means.
My point was if you leave the ball in your court you should no longer care. If she doesn't call back then move on to the next chick.
And no, your posts will get stickied when they are of value.
next time you pick up a girl and have sex with her, let us know, then we can take your adivce toots
No but you do see the waiting game shit.
i never leave a message unless ive fucked her multiple times.
i never check my vmails but leaving a message is never a good idea
jesus christ you choades over analyze making a simple stupid fucking phone call
Glad someone agrees because thats the point I have been trying to make.
yep, i thought it was pretty pathetic to say the least
"how to get ugly chicks to become your gf method, coming soon"
hey you illiterate cock weasel, show me the quote of me saying my girlfriend was ugly. i never once ever said she was ugly. i DID though you silly cock weasel say it was in my own belief that i consider myself very sexy and to accurately quote myself "i am dating down"
and pics of you, grandmaster of pick up artist magics. IN FOR LAUGHS.