Some guy kissed my girlfriend

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  1. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    So, here's the background:

    My girlfriend went to school in Switzerland for a year...
    Met a guy, and dated him for about 6 months.
    This guy was crazy about her and wanted to marry her.
    She said No, moved back the US...met me, and we've been together for 7 months.

    NOW, she goes back to Switzerland to visit..because she had a lot of friends there. Earlier she just told me that he (her ex) caught her off guard, and kissed her. She didnt kiss back.

    ..Apparently he still has feelings for her, and is still crazy about it. She said she almost feels sorry for him because it's so pathetic.

    What am I supposed to do? I cant just fly over there and kick the shit out of this fag. Should I just forget about it? Anyone have any ideas?
     
  2. Grow some balls and forget about it, are you really that bothered by it?
     
  3. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    No, I just wish I could end his life, right now. Because NO ONE should disrespect someone like that.
     
  4. Get over it. There are better things in life to be worried about, like paying taxes. :rofl:
     
  5. God of Thunder

    God of Thunder Active Member

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    i'd kiss your girlfriend, right in front of you.........unless she's fat.
     
  6. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    bro, grab a ticket with that guy who met that russian chick on myspace, fly over there, clobber the guy together, and then double team the russian girl. Then send me pics of everything
     
  7. FurryFriend

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    Why get so pissed? He loves her, she doesn't love him. If your girlfriend is half attractive, she will draw admirers anywhere she goes. You'll have to just get used to that. Besides, it was him who kissed her out-of-the blue. If you see him in person, tell him to stay away. But no need for the violent thoughts.
     
  8. Falconer

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    Dude, are you a neanderthal? Or are you like 16?
     
  9. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    :greddy:
     
  10. Falconer

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    j/w cuz you sound like an immature, overjealous fratboy.
     
  11. Falconer

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    I mean if you thought about things, you might wonder:

    - Does he know your gf has a bf (you)?
    - Why did you gf present him with the opportunity for him to kiss her even if she didn't kiss back?
    - Why is she hanging out with him?

    But no, you go into ass kicking mode because you're badass. RAWR. Nobody fucks with you. :rolleyes:

    You might also consider that she was honest enough to tell you whereas she could've kept it hidden.

    Or you might consider the fact that your GF is awesome and, if you were in his position, you probably would've done the same thing, too.
     
  12. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    stfu douchebag, it's faggots like you who take all the women. That's why I'm better than you. Because you take my women.
     
  13. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Silly me. People should be impulsive to their emotions without thining about things first. The world is better that way. Yay road rage! Yay kicking people's asses who look at you funny! Some dude randomly macks on your woman without even knowing that she has a bf? Shit, you better fucking beat his ass!

    Yeah, since most fratboys I know act like that, I'm gonna call it as such.
     
  14. Lateralus

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    Just forget about it and move on, be happy that she was honest with you and told you about it rather than you not ever knowing.
     
  15. Chip Chipperson

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    :nono::nono: you are not an alpha male
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Um, get over it.
     
  17. derivative

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    insecurity much?
     
  18. Buttsecks, I love your av.
     
  19. jonno

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    it's outta her control (although she put herself in that situation and hung out with him when she knows he wants her)

    do you trust her 100%?
     
  20. That is beside the point here, he's just pussy hurt.
     
  21. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    Ehhh.

    He does know she is dating someone else. But he still insisted.
    NO ONE should disrespect a woman like that. Agreed?

    Same old OT. Same old internet.
    Trash talk galore.

    I have a temper? Yes.
    Is there anything wrong with that? No.
    I bet you ask any self-respecting woman out there, she'll agree that a man who shows some anger now and then is never a bad thing.

    I really doubt that most of you put in the same situation would just *let* some moron make a move on your girl.

    However, this situation is pretty much out of my control, like some of you have stated..and I can't do a thing about it. Which to tell you the truth, this is what irritates me the most...because I don't like it when things like this aren't in my control.
    Sure, go ahead, call me a "control freak". Whatever.

    I'm done here.

    /flamesuit on
     
  22. If it was local, your frustration would be justified, but half-way around the world, let it go, already.

    No flaming here, just honesty.
     
  23. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    Nah it's cool.

    I've let it go. It's not worth it to lose sleep over it.
    ..Just hope he doesn't take it a step further, you know? There's some creepy guys out there who would do anything in desperation.
     
  24. If he tries, then you may need to get rid of her, she's putting herself in the position to do such things, you must cut her off quick if she does that again.
     
  25. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    :werd:

    I've talked to her about this. She can't blame everything on him if she's putting herself in those situations. Not cool.
     

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