I've always had a problem with shyness and confidence and stuff and made a ton of posts on OT that were followed up with great advice from other OTers. There was a thread in OT earlier about some guy asking how to overcome his fear of girls, because he was shy. Jennipher posted some of the best advice I've ever heard, its short, simple and straight to the point. You may or may not think that is great advice, but I honestly think its some of the best I've heard. Anyone who has problem with shyness and girls needs to read that quote. Theres another quote, I forget who said it, but it was something like I love that line. I was never good with teasing and stuff with girls, but after reading that line, it made perfect sense and helped soo much.