Me and my wife have been married for about 2.5 years now. In the past 6 or 7 monthes I have started to become bored in the bedroom. She is very shy about things and I have always been wanting a little bit more from love lives. Well I told her about a week ago that is had been bothering me and so on. Only problem was that I am in Korea and she is back in the states. She was hurt that I told her from such a distance but at the same time I was scared how she would react. She wasnt taking it very well, and was refusing to talk about it. Last night we kinda fooled around on the internet and she I guess the whole time did not want to do it but did it anyway because she wanted to make me happy but made herself feel like crap in the process. Now I feel bad because I thought she was starting to come around and I tried again this morning but she resisted and I kept pushing. I am not sure where to go from here, I dont know whether to just give up and be unhappy in bed the rest of my life or keep trying to work with her. She seems to want to work it out but I keep getting mixed signals from her. I am just lost at what should do or where I should go from here.