Ok here it goes: I'm 21 years old, and starting my senior year in college. When I was a kid my family moved around a lot, about every 3-4years from various job transfers/promotions. This made it really hard to make friends, or ever feel comfortable with a group of friends. I've never had a girl friend, ever. Once about 2 weeks before I moved when I was starting highschool I found out a girl who a group of us had been hanging out with over the summer was interested in me....great fucking timing...so away I moved, and that was that. Now to the even worse part, still haven't ever kissed a girl... So I sure as shit don't want to graduate college without atleast one damn kiss. I am looking for some advice to get out and in "the game". I could go to bars, but I would be very uncomfortable to go alone, even though that would be the best chance to meet someone. And if I went with people I knew I would most likey just talk with them and not be on the look out for meeting. With people I've talked to about this my main issue seems to be confidence. I have a habit of coming off as shy, or unpersonable to people I don't know. Hell, maybe its part of my childhood to not want to get too close to people until I know they will be around for a while. So I'm looking for help on how to build selfconfidence, and not be so affriad of rejection, or even just great ways to meet girls. I just keep looking around at my peers and they make it seem so easy. And everyday that goes by it seems like my chances are just slipping away. Thanks for any comments/advice in advance.