I am about to be divorced. Long story but I eventually ended up telling her that if she didn't like life with me to GTFO but she was going to have to be the one to file. I gave her the money, she filed, I'm not contesting anything. Her filing was very fair except for child support. I can take her to court at a later date to modify that if I decide to. Filing was a March 18th. What I don't understand is that she's been getting progressively nicer since the beginning of March. I just got off the phone with her - she called me at work to see if I wanted to go to lunch with her and kids. She's been a complete cunt to me for 5+ years, but now for some reason she's been kissing my ass (there's other stuff too, like actually cleaning/getting a job...)? Or is she just finding out that no other guys really want to put up with her shit either?