Can you blame me? Wouldnt you be the same way? Alright I have this dude I work with who is a nice guy but the thing is, he dresses and comes to work looking like a complete bum. Doesnt shave, needs a haircut (70's hairdo), smells, doesnt brush his teeth (he even admitted it), wears the sameclothes everyday, and doesnt wash them either. You get the point - but if you see him you would think he just came of the street or something. Everywhere he goes he attracts a lot of attn due to this. Now I work in a professional downtown office building with a lot of people, a lot of higher up V.P.s, CEOs etc. He asks me everyday or so where im going for lunch, if I want to get a coffee (though I dont drink coffee), and so on. I would love to but frankly its pretty damn embarassing being seen with him. And I dont want to make myself look bad by people thinking im hanging around a bum. Im not being mean but really...can you blame me? Im not saying he has to look like a GQ pimp, but at least clean up and make yourself look half decent. You bet it makes me look bad. Besides there are so many hotties on this floor, let alone the entire building. So uhhh, everyone would wonder wtf kind of low standards i have in myself if i hang out with him. This guy is very very clingy. umm, i hang out with this other guy and he does to....and he always always tries to tag along. My buddy and i will make plans for lunch and he will always ask" where u going, can i come?" Every fuckin day, several times a day. FUCK I DONT WANNA BE MEAN, BUT SHIT MAN...Its one of the busiest downtown office buildings, lots of ladies and this bum wants to follow us around everywhere? Even getting lunch is embrassing to be even seen with him. Good lord...i dont wanna be mean but....MAN! This dude can be mistaken for a girl....has hair hanging off his ears like a freakin barbarian, has a unibrow and more hair on his neck than i do on my entire body. You cant tell me you wouldnt feel disgusted being seen with him in public.