Stage 5 Clinger...

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  1. Boudreaux

    Boudreaux Active Member

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    So, been dating this girl for about a week. Sexed for the first time sunday. Today, she sent me some lyrics to a song via email, and that really took me by surprise.

    I'm 23, she's 27. I'm not really ready for a relationship, i'm enjoying being single right now. My biggest red flag is that she wants kids, and i'm not having those.

    So, do i have a talk with her tomorrow when i'm supposed to see her, or do i just kind of ignore it and see if she persists? I can't say that i've led her on. We havn't had a talk about any sort of relationship, and i've even said she can't get attached, somewhat jokingly.

    What to do :hsd:
     
  2. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    THAT is NOT a stage 5 clinger :ugh2:
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Be a man. If you aren't really interested in a relationship with her then tell her that. Ignoring her and skipping dates is only going to make her contact you more and ask for explanations.
     
  4. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    im not ever having kids? ok then you should get your shit snipped..... then if you want to tell her, its up to you
     
  5. crown royal

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    Thread starter's roommate here-

    This is full of lollers.


    Call Sheila dude,that's where it's at.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Gotta love the girl that's getting older and wants to make every next bf her husband/baby's daddy.
     
  7. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    what was the song?
     
  8. ww_Crimson

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    Haha I'm curious too.

    Really though.. doesn't sound like she's being a clinger. Just tell her how you feel before you lead her on anymore.
     
  9. Boudreaux

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    i honestly didn't/don't feel like i'm leading her on :dunno: i felt as if i was making a conscious effort to NOT lead her on :hsd:

    probably made her just want it more :hsugh:
     
  10. Boudreaux

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    by and large, i'm pretty sure i don't want kids. However, i may meet someone that changes that :dunno: so :nono: on getting snipped, plus, even if i do decide i really want to have kids, it'll probably be well after the time period she's willing to wait
     
  11. Boudreaux

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    here is the song

    i have no idea what song this is

    found out: its hellogoodbye, not a terrible song i guess :dunno:
     
  12. Boudreaux

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    werd
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Oh I know this. I just find it funny because not too long ago some really young guy made that thread about dating an older woman and I just warned that a lot of older women who date are immediately looking for their husband and/or man to make children with.
     
  14. chlywly

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    Stage 5 clinger not found... In fact I can't see any clingy behavior from anything you have posted as of yet ......
     
  15. crown royal

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    lol update coming








































    v.youshouldhavecalledsheila
     
  16. Boudreaux

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    sooooo

    we've been spending some time together, 3x a week at most. Last night she came over to spend the night. After a romp in the sheets, the subject of her not getting attached came up again.

    I told her she really can't get attached because i'm not sure if its going to be something i see being long term, and that it would be wrong of me to be committed to her whilst feeling that way. As well as telling her that i see the fact that she's wanting kids/family and being older doesn't really fly.

    She says she understands, and is glad i'm being truthful with her and she admitted that she "loved" that about me :mb:.

    Fast forward to today. She was supposed to go over to her parents house for om nom nom, but her plans changed. I had plans to go to church, and watch a movie, and possibly hang out with another friend of mine.

    In the course of 2.5 hrs, she called 7 times, and sent 4 text messages.

    text 1: "hey, plans changed, let me know if you can hang out"

    text 2: "i'll cook breakfast for dinner..."

    text 3: (many hours later) "will you at least call me so we can talk? im getting the idea that ur avoiding me. Sorry if i misinterpret"

    text 4: "i'm sorry, that last message was stupid. 4get i sent it. I'm being a stupid clingy girl and i'll stop it. i'll talk 2 u 2morrow? sorry i bothered u & went a little nuts"


    i'd give a transcript of the voice-mails, but generally the first was all happy and giddy that we might hang out, and the second was noticeably "drab" and sad sounding

    NOW can she be called a stage 5 clinger?





















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  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yikes. I don't even know why you are still entertaining her, I'm sure you can get casual sex from other chicks.
     

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