No, I don't have one but here's my situation and I don't really know how to deal with it. I went out this this girl on Friday, had a great time. I stayed overnight at her house but nothing really happened. So today I hear from my friend that this girl might have an STD but she doesn't know for sure. How do I find out? Do I ask her straight up before we even go on a second date? I'd kinda like to know because I like this girl but I really don't want to catch something (assuming we had sex later on) and wouldn't want to lead her on if she does indeed have something.