Alright I need some brainstorming on this one! I can't come to a decision in this situation. My friend Kennon got in a relationship with a girl, Christina. He was with her for 2 weeks then she got in a bad car accident and her arm was almost cut off and it was bad. She was in the hospital for a month, and he visited her a few times. She lives 45 minutes away, and they only saw each other on the weekends. The whole time they were together, he was cheating on her. With multiple girls. I know this, because I was in one of the threesomes, and then again with me and him in a hotel room with a couple girls, switching partners. It's not like I just suspect him or anything. I let him mess with my ex's, and he lets me mess with his. He broke up with her, and then left for Camp Pendleton a few days later. He'll be there for 9 months. The worst part is he said he was going to break up with her right after they got together, BEFORE her accident, but said he couldn't break up with her after her accident because it would seem like he is just doing it because of the scar on her arm. I asked him if I could hang out wtih her, and he said yes. He said "You'll probably start liking her though, because she is really cool." And it has pretty much happend. She is the coolest girl i've ever met. I've had sex with her, and now we are in a relationship. Kennon sent me a text message out of nowhere saying "Don't fuck her man! I love her! She is the only one for me! Don't tell her about me cheating!" I haven't told her about his cheating. But, I did tell him that I don't like lying to her about it, because it makes me an asshole too. I told him he should just come clean and tell her. He won't do it. He took back what he said after I already did it. But now he doesn't want me to anymore. He doesn't know that we've had sex, and he doesn't know she is my girlfriend. I think lying is for chickenshits, so i'm not going to lie to him. I am trying to think of the best way to let him know. Should I even feel bad since he cheated and didn't even want to be with her? I don't lie to girls, and I really don't like lying for him either. I can't come to a decision guys, so help me out! I stick to bro's before hoe's, but it's exactly that. Bro's before hoe's. This girl isn't a hoe.