History: Broke up with SO of 4 years about 4 months ago or so, Partied hard for 3 months then met this great girl, been seeing her for about a month. She's great and all but... I still miss my ex, I don't understand why, I guess most of my feeling come back when we talk, (which is not very often), however i saw her last night., I thought i was over it all but i guess i'm not , So whats the deal ? Is this something time can only heal ? A big part of it is that i am angry because she lyed when she left. (there was somebody else and she swore there was not) Then i busted her on it about a month after we broke up and found out they where talking for who knows how long before we broke up The new woman is great, prolly better then my ex in every aspect possible, so whats my problem, anybody ? Cliffs: Why am i such a pussy ?