I am not sure if this is just the way my mind works or what. I still think about my ex a lot. Some days are good, some days I only think about her a few times. Overall I am happy where I am, I am graduating from a JC and transferring to a CSU. My confidence is up, my heart no longer races when trying to make conversation. On a whole I have improved greatly. Except in this area. How can I get her out of my head? I try and keep myself busy, with school readings and what not. But sometimes it does not work. I have a vived sex dream about her a few nights ago. I guess I should go out more, but that would require having more friends, which I am working on that as well, but that is tough. Well, life is tough and I should get a helmet. I don't feel I am complaining or whining, just looking for advice on clearing my thoughts from her.