Is your gf cool with you going to strip clubs? whats her take on it and does it bother her? what about dollar/lap dances. This is a huge problem with my gf. It really really bothers her alot and I hate that it bothers her so much but I dont know if I can give it up. I like to go. She says she feels inadequate and I try to explain to her that she is the most beautiful/sexiest girl in the world to me. I like to go because well guys like to go....drinking beer with friends while watching naked woman and ESPN is fun..what can i say? Are there any girls on here than can convince my girlfriend that just because I like to go has no affect on my feelings for her etc. Is it fair of her to ask me not to go?? Just looking for some outside opinions here.