there's this girl that works in a jewelry shop... She doesn't really know I exist... But what is a good way to ask her to hang out without scaring her away? I understand that it's either gonna work or it's not gonna work... but I just haven't found a scenario that doesn't result in that "eww get away from me" when I run it over in my head. I mean it's a jewelry store, so that's a tough one for me. I was thinking go in with a friend who's looking for jewelry for his gf (legit, he wants to get her pearls) and then at least I have an opportunity to shoot-the-shit with her? And for the women out there, can you give some suggestions? Is the "hey lets get a cup of coffee" line just way too overused? What would you consider a genuine and sweet way of getting asked out without being put on the spot? Thank you for any suggestions.