Originally Posted by Sunni
I just wanted to clear a few things up from the facts as I know them.
First and foremost, I did NOT request for MCohen to get a perma.
I NEVER issued Xerq any ultimatums (Not with MCohen & not with the Amazon sub-forum) Why MCohen thinks I issued one is honestly beyond me.
I was only anywhere in "the know" with MCohens bans because this ban was going to happen right after MCohen and I got into it and it was thought that if they banned him when they did, it would be blamed on me & they wanted to know how I felt about this. I advised them that it was not my forum and for them to do whatever they felt/wanted to do.
The reasons he was going to get the initial ban were never brought to my attention & I did not ask.
It was then brought to Xerqs attention that he posted my car pic here and that was a reason for a 7 day ban. This is about when I asked for a self ban from OT (it didn't seem worth having the account if when I logged in I was just going to read shitty things about myself & it seemed like something I could do without reading)
At this point, I requested all of my posts in the Amazon thread be deleted... it seemed to be a constant problem with what people thought about the thread and I figured it was just easier to gradually phase myself out of the thread. Even though I hadn't been near as active in the thread anyway, this just seemed that would maybe take some of the heat off the thread in general & maybe people would just drop the issue all together. Many people were spreading rumors about the reason of the thread, what was being bought & why...etc.
Xerq told me to do this, he would have to purge all of my posts. I agreed to this.
MCohens 7 day ban was lifted pretty shortly after, not sure how long but someone paid to have the ban lifted. Somewhere around this time, I asked for a self perma. The drama was getting to be too much & i thought if I simply exited fairly quietly then everything would go back to normal. People were going to believe what they wanted to about his ban and I wasn't at liberty to really respond as it was thought this would encourage more drama. The only place I posted I was leaving was the Amazon thread because I figured it would go unnoticed by the rest of the forum. For whatever reason, I was never banned.
Later, things on the board seemed fine from that point. MCohen was unbanned, the feel of the boards seemed good, everything seemed fine & back to normal and I was fine at this point with resending my request because minus a few comments, things were fine.
I never used my ignore list because there was never a need to. MCohen and I have went back & forth before, shit blows over. If people understood that this was not the reason for the ban, I think they would quit asking why I didn't use it.
THIS IS WHERE THE REAL DRAMA STARTS........
It was then brought up that MCohen had made posts here on OT stating he had received my personal information including my name & phone number and that he told people not to take it to real life but some people wouldn't listen to him. I was also receiving messages on Facebook addressing me as Sunni so it was obvious people had used their free time to try to track me down. At this point, Xerq issued my self imposed perma to prevent anyone else from accessing any other info on me in any way. (I didnt even know this, I had to send a message asking why I was banned)
It had nothing to due with MCohens perma being reduced as people think/say.
I contacted Xerq stating that was ridiculous, if they already had my personal information, it didn't make a difference at this point. That is where the issue still stands at this point and I am still waiting to hear back.
I tried to be sure I listed everything in chronological order, however since I am banned, I do not have access to my Xerq PMs to totally place the timeline together.
Read it, dont read it...just thought some actual facts in the matter should be brought to light.
Do you have any suspicions of who gave him your FB info?MCohen already posted that he had my personal information and people have contacted me on Facebook so who cares? If they are stupid enough to actually try to USE the information, I will cross that bridge when we get there. I dont think me being banned is going to make a difference at this point...not to mention it just fuels the rumors that I self banned because MCohens was reduced, which wasnt the case.
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It has been an adventure lol
Just yesterday, the wife asked me to hold her while she goes to the bathroom before I head off to work. About 45 seconds passes between what happens next and when the wife comes back. We're playing, she's laughing, I go into kiss her on her nose and out comes a massive stream of spit-up. I'm standing there with regurgitated breast milk (which smells awful and has tiny chunks for some reason) all over my suit, all over my shirt and tie and all over my shoes and the kicker: in my fucking mouth. I don't know if it was the gas or what, but she starts crying. So, I'm standing with baby spit-up in my mouth and covered in it with a baby who is screaming and also covered in it. I'm trying to calm her down while I make my way to the sink to spit out some of the milk that its in my mouth when she spits up again. Then the wife comes back and just gives me the biggest "wtf happened" look
Fun stuff lol