mega good mood today boys. mega mega. boys you have to let the little boy inside of you die and you have to realize that you are men. and part of that is you ABSOLUTELY WANT TO TAKE WOMEN. and WOMEN MUST KNOW THIS. they MUST know that you want them, that you want to take them. they MUST. but you HAVE to be a man first. you have to show the girl that you are ultimately comfortable with yourself and who you are, and unashamed to express your thoughts or desires. And WITH THAT BASE, then you can want the girl. "alpha want." You want her but you DO NOT NEED HER and you will not wilt away on her doorsteps as you stand out in the rain wondering why she doesn't pick up your calls. Once she knows this, that you can express your desires in a way that doesn't exude neediness, you can become the sweetest fucking guy on the planet. cloyingly sweet and she will absolutely ADORE you. you can SMOTHER her in affection, things that you would think would be ABSOLUTELY RETARDED, but because it is coming from a deep place of appreciation inside of you and NOT from a weak place, she loves it. This is so apparent in a character like the father in Addam's Family Values - and probably what I'm assuming a lot of Spanish (from Spain) men are like - treats his wife like an absolute fucking QUEEN, but because he is his own man and he does not need ANYTHING from her, he can fully, cleanly appreciate her. It's like when you see the cool kids who seem like they are really cliquish and don't seem like they talk to ANYONE, then they turn and have a nice conversation with you and compliment you a bit and you think "omg they're the NICEST people!" - because there's that polarity but there's also the realization that they don't want anything from you - if they're kind to you it's coming from a genuine place of contentment (p.s. that's why they're the cool kids). Or it's kind of like how parents can love love love their babies and it really doesn't get any more genuine than that - because it's just coming from a place of pure appreciation and not needing anything, because seriously what can a little baby do for you. life is wonderful.