She was supposed to come over and help me move in with her. I called earlier today and only asked her to help me move my clothes, I am taking care of furniture and other crap. She said sure and said she'll be heading over, I called an hour later and she said she changed her mind. I come home to find my gf drunk by 7:00pm. She suffers from depression and is considered disabled by the state. She's been on a bender ever since she heard that she might be losing her job from somebody who overheard her manager talking to somebody else (he said, she said bullshit). She goes on these completely OCD fits of cleaning, so I came home to a mostly wrecked house (furniture moved around, lamps torn out of sockets). How in the holy hell am I supposed to react? She's still pretty drunk so there's no point in talking to her. I love her. She's great when she's sober and taking her medicine but over the past couple of days she went of a self destructive fit.